If you are above the age of 25 and have yet to sign that legal document that proclaims your love for another---odds are you have a sexual past. Good for you! If you are above the age of 35 and have yet to sign the financial proclamation of your love-odds are, you have an extensive sexual past. Lucky You!
I have never been ashamed of my sexual past, in fact, I am proud of it. There may have been one or two that I should have passed on, but is that something to be ashamed of? Hell no.
The "IF" Crusade supports the idea of woman enjoying and exploring their sexuality. The notches on her bed post should be symbols of her self confidence--not scars of her past.
So, in my opinion here is a list of benefits to having explored my sexual urges:
1. I don't feel like I have missed out on anything that has to do with men.
2. I am comfortable with my body and accepting of physical faults--every body is beautiful.
3. I have something to add to the physical act--too many women lay like a crime scene chalk line.
4. I can openly discuss topics related to sex with my partner-which is the key to great sex.
5. Because of my sexual ability-I do not worry about my mate looking elsewhere.
6. I understand and have mastered the male anatomy. What do they really like, where not to touch, where to touch, how to make it last longer, working with smaller/bigger mechanical parts.
7. I understand and have sexually mastered the male libido. Why they don't always snuggle, what not to say during and afterwards, why it is easier for them, different forms of sex, etc.
8. I have no problem introducing myself to men or telling them exactly what I want because I know what it is.... (the challenge is getting them to listen).
9. I can do spectacular things with my body, mind, and soul that should be shared.
10. Positions, positions, and more positions.........
All of this information was passed on to me by my past lovers and I would like to thank them. So, tell me...what is wrong with a woman who has a phenomenal sexual past? Is she not to be trusted? Is she a dirty pirate whore? Or is she a huge advantage to some lucky bastard?
Thursday, November 1, 2007
Be Proud of Your Sexual Past.........
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Who would ever say that having a sexual past was ever bad????
My problem, FOR NOW, is that is seems like fond (and some not-so-fond)memories.
Since I haven't been in a relationship for quite some time, I don't get to take advantage of GREAT SEX like I used to and "hooking up" is not what it used to be....or maybe it's me. When I find someone worth having sex with, I mean GREAT SEX, all day long, any where, any time, positions, positions, and more positions I will be all over this blogger but until then I will enjoy the stories that others have to share....YOU ALL WILL HEAR FROM ME SOME DAY!
Ro, Ro, Ro.....you must go and get some strange. I will give you a hundred reason why later..
I have done that and while fun, nice and it definitely relieved some stress it just didn't leave me with wanting more and thinking "Damn, when can I get more". I'm wondering if it's me, I can take or leave it. I'm in unfamiliar territory, I have never gone this long with out sex or a relationship for that matter. Don't get me wrong, I am not complaining because I am truly happy with myself and my choices right now. I'm just wondering if and when I'll have someone rock my world again....strange is just not going to do it!
No, Rho it is not just you. Strange is not the same. I would rather to continue sexn the same partners and not have any other type of relationship with them...than to go get some strange. This way I know what I am getting. I mean, when I am ready to get some there is no room for dissapointment. I gotta know that it is going to be good. Why do u think that I keep going back to "tha dirty"?
As for sun, I hear ya when you say that the notches on the bedpost should be symbols of her self confidence and not scars. There is something positive to be said about a women who can and will conquer in the bedroom! I love that about myself. Women should not be made to feel that they are "dirty" because they are "dirty"! slg
Ladies, ladies,ladies......I do understand, but why should you spend all your nights alone while waiting for the relationship? As before you have to try on the merchandise to know exactly what fits right. If I were in your shoes I would have 3 men. One for the solid companionship, one who is too much fun to be around, and the last...one who does not speak at all and simply pleasures you. As beautiful as you are this should be simple.
The point I was making was that I have changed, the alone part doesn't bother me like I thought it would I actually enjoy the alone time. It probably could be that simple if I cared to put any effort in it but it doesn't seem to be what I want. I hope and think that it's just where I am in my life and it will change and I will be running around naked enjoying how beautiful I am, no wait I do that now but it's with some wine and dance music in front of my mirror :o The whole dating thing and hooking up seems to be more stress then it's worth and I was trying to figure out if that was normal.
I think you should find someone who you might consider second string. A friend, trustee type that may not fit the exact mold for long term, but can be a hreat resource when needed. In my opinion it may be that you have done so many good thinsg since being out of a relationship that you may fear that those things may change of you open yourself up to someone new. Find a fuck buddy Ro. I am sure there are plenty of fine men out there who would be willing to come by when asked--then leave when asked. I totally understand your love of being independent--that is what this forum is about, but that warm fuzzy feeling of unbridled, unemotional sex can be a hell of a stress reliever. I think we as women are the ones who screw that up. Just a thought.
When we are too emotionally attached or dependent on the guy we usually find a way to screw up, I totally agree. WHEN I find that fuck buddy or maybe even a great relationship I will spend all my free time having sex and writing to tell you about it, just not looking for either right now.
I want to redefine "strange"...
Let's call it the second string quarterback...not quite the one you want to settle down with, but can put the ball between the goal posts. TOUCHDOWN! I don't believe in randoms..too scary, but how about one of those fine contractors you get to play with? Well then I think you should comment on my masturbation topic. Any tricks you want to share with the girls?
Sounds like I don't know anything about football...I meant the kicker--damn it.
I love it girls! I think real men like a woman who knows what she wants. It is the insecure ones who can't deal with a strong woman. Who wants those men any way? I enjoy my alone time as well, but I NEVER want to be without a sexual relationship, even if it just a fuck buddy!
This one's for "RO"...I know the perfect guy for you to have the perfect "relationship" with! You know him too. He's kind, fun, respectful, and actually not too shabby in egyptian cotton, if you know what I mean? clue? BR Just a thought!
And for the record, there is nothing wrong with you, at all! Although being in a committed relationship is a comfortable place to be, it does take away from your independence. You do have to think about the other person, and their needs and responsibilities. Hooking up isn't what it used to be when we were in our 20's, and didn't care if we saw them again or not.
What you have now is respect for yourself and integrity. Don't question that, be proud of it! Enjoy your "me time", and when you're ready for "we time", you'll find just the right one to share that time with!
Amen sista!
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