OK kids--I need some input on this. I am writing an article on penis size. I need your vast knowledge. The focus is for men to understand that the size (in my opinion) does not really matter. OK, I would be completely out of my mind to say that 2" Charlie is gonna do the trick (although is has happened), but I also know it is a great myth to think that 12" Tommy is our best friend.
Here is what I would like to you address:
1. Does your emotional state control your sexual pleasure?
2. Is your point of orgasm determined upon insertion or full penetration?
3. Positions that increase/decrease pleasure regardless of size.
4. Girth or length?
5. Do all women hate doggie style or is that just me?
Since I know for certain that each of you has experienced BOTH ends of the spectrum...tell me how it worked out and what did you do to make the situation better.
That should do it for now. The article will be submitted to a men's mag as soon as I finish, so tell me-- Charlie or Tommy?
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1. Hell, Yes!!
2. Full on penetration, baby. Although, We have talked about the initial entry. I always like it when I can tell that they are there...sometimes you can't.
3.I am all about the touch'n and eye connections when hav'n sex, so I am still most impressed with the good ol missionary position.
4. About 6 inches with girth. Perfect!!!
5. I am perfectly fine with doggie style as long as he does not miss!! That fucking hurts and they always say that it was an accident. Yeah, right!!!
test sammy
Excellent feedback--I agree with the 6" and girth. Being a tiny little thing anything beyond that can become a bit of a problem.
Hilarious!!! As long as they don't slip--you KNOW it's intentional!
You can keep your missionary man--I ride side saddle! xoxo
Welcome back..slg
Tommy- all the way I have been a Tommy girl all of my life and I will always be. I fucked up once in my life and had a Charlie and it will NEVER happen again!!
You point of orgasm is definatly when the full penetration happens. He needs to know how to work all up in the nooks & crannies. Which brings me to my second point, you need length & girth. We shouldnt have to choose!! Especially when there are men out there with BOTH. Once again he needs both to get all up in the nooks & crannies. You havent lived until you have had both.
Let me just finish by saying that the women that say that "size doesnt matter" have only ever had Charlies. Just try a Tommy and get back to me.
Well, well, well, brag if you will! I am guessing you are married to this fine chap if you get Tommy boy all the time. Sure, rub it in....
So, maybe you can give some good advice on how to master the "damn that hurts factor" when big Tom jabs the hell out of whatever is up there? I am guessing it may be positioning...
Big Tom is always gonna hurt the first time or two but you always have to stay in control which mean you have to be on top. This ensures that you will be able to control how deep into the nooks & crannies it goes into. If that position is not for you then you have to be able to talk to your "big" guy & he needs to know when to slow it down & when to take the hint to back out a bit. communication is the key. But if you are just looking for a one nighter with a Tommy then I would suggest taking the high road & getting on top.
I am tagging you as our resident Big Cock Advisor! Very nicely put....I may just have to reconsider my middle of the road acceptance. Keep the feedback coming BCA--you're an inspiration for the women and should be feared by the men!!! So I guess if he is well endowed you better keep him around for more than night to get the FULL effect! Great insight!
Ok Tommy girl, I'm still trying to figure out where all these nooks and crannies are!! I'm a Medium Mike kinda gal. Not too big, yes that does hurt-not too small, I wanna feel something.
And while we are on the subject(Jimmy this ones for you!!)why do men think they have to last forever. I wanna come(doesnt matter how)but it DOES get sore after awhile.
OK, Anon, if you dont know where your nooks & crannies are then maybe you should try to discover them for yourself & then figure out what size man you REALLY want or need. You may find places that you have never experienced before that turn you on more than you can ever imagine. You should try that website babeland.com for some ideas.
Yours truly
Resident CBA
What about 4.5 inches and skinny? If you think about, it really means guys like me eat the best pussy. Just for the record, I've never had any complaints (but I have had a lot of chuckles, giggles, and you must be kidding me's). Just for the record,we always last forever if you swallow the shaft first!!!
You never cease to amaze me.....wow that took a lot of guts! Well first, thanks for your honesty. Since you are the only man thus far on this site--I really appreciate your feedback (although sometimes it is slightly insane). Nevertheless....takes a big man to announce such a thing to this crowd. I suppose that is exactly why you don't have any complaints--confidence my friend! Please address the question above--"Why do men think they have to last forever?"
Men think they have to last forever because most of them don't know what they're doing and they don't get their women off. They immediately assume that they're not the problem and if 'I can only go a little longer, she'd cumm'.
The other obstacle......porn. The porn movies make it seem like all men should fuck for 15 minutes without approaching an eruption. Aside from that, I can't imagine any reason why a man would think he needs to go forever.
By the way, the first reason really is, a real man wants to please his woman. If he can't, then he looks to find out why and there you go on the marathon.
1. Absolutely!!! I have been brought to tears (good & bad)...also, if i'm not in the mood and you keep houndin' me then watch out...i might just rip it off!
2. This is a good question. In prior blogs, you spoke of the whole masturbation ordeal, the showerhead and yada,yada,yada...To me, the question is, G-spot or clitorally stimulated??? I'm a G-spotter...I don't think I was born with any nerve endings in the clittoris cuz it just bothers me when someone tries to play with it...I'm like, dude, that's just not doing it for me at all. Some women have never had the g-spot experience, so who knows??? So, my answer would be, 9 out 10, I'm on top having my way, so do what I say!!!
3. Again, I think the girl being on top could increase if it's small and make it more comfortable for her if it's too big
4. I would have to say girth!!! Nobody wants a pencil-dick...yuck...What's the saying, it's not the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean! Well, I must say that the ship size should at least be bigger than a dinghy! I'm not one who likes big cock-a-doodles either. I certainly don't need to ripped to shreds and walk around like I just got off my horse...nor, do I need to be applying cool compresses to my girl either. It's like Goldilocks and the 3 Bears: Not too hot (huge!), not too cold (shriveled!), but just right!!! Although, just right is different for us all cuz our girls are different:)
5. Doggie-style is such a demeaning position...although, if I'm not in the mood, this typically seems to be the position where the guy gets his rocks off pretty quick,so, go for it. It can be a little painful for me at times too. This goes back to the whole different internal anatomy of women. A lot of my sex is painful cuz the doctor states that my insides are tilted-whatever that means!!! So, there are many times when I'm just scared to have sex at all...Any other questions??? I hope I answered them accordingly...I have a tendency to stray off the subject:)
I fell on the floor with this one ????. I have missed you! Ok, love the metaphors and nice reference to Goldilocks...and couldn't agree with you more. I am the only one who can stimulate my turkey-done-button because during the warm up phase and beyond that is exactly what happens. It pops up like its been baking for days! Hands off-too sensitve.
Agree with the doggie deal..I don't like the idea of what they may be looking at from back there. I know I have a great ass, but I don't particularly like the idea of someone being able to eyeball the peep hole. Eewwww.
As per the anatomy...yep! The article I am writing will hit on that...it seems my curvier crusaders seem to be able to accomidate positions and sizes better than mini me. Thanks for sharing--I know you have seen a few! xoxo
Citizen Sun - You ladies crack me up. I used to think that the boys were crazy the way they talked about woman but I'm begining to think that the ladies are over the top. I've been around a lot of guy talk and I can't ever recall anyone asking me if my siginficant others vagina was to big, not tight enough, had big or small lips, shape and size of clit, smelt like fish, juicy or dry, responded to g spot stimulation, squirted upon organism - should I continue? I think you get my drift. If you're not happy with your man tell him what you need and/or want. If he can't ship it or isn't willing, move on. Maybe, just maybe, you're not floating his boat.
Well hello there Anon. First let me respectfully thank you for your glorious insight. This is an open forum and criticism is par for the course.
For starters...BULLSHIT! I find it very hard to believe that your experience with "guy talk" has been so limited. Where do you think we learned this type of banter? It wasn't from our mothers (well maybe mine). Have you really never had a guy ask you about a woman's pussy? For real? What rock have you been hiding under and maybe it be best for you to stick around because you have been sheltered way too long!
Seriously...men have been openly discussing their sexuality for centuries and woman have been forced to repress their desires and needs for far too long.
If you have a significant other I will gaurantee you that she and her girly friends have talked more than once about your member my friend. Ask her? I don't care if she is the Queen of the PTA..she has discussed your peepee size and your performance. I am guessing you are married and have been for some time. Things have changed.
I do thank you for the advice on not liking my man...I do like him, but because we are women we work towards a functional environment and quite often just do what is best. If I dropped a man everytime he made the relationship difficult or the sex became stale--I would be flipping them each week. If I could figure out how to make him or any man listen more clearly..I would write a book about it and win the pulitzer prize.
Please come back--I enjoy your hostility. By any chance did the penis thing get to you a little Charlie? Just kidding. Welcome to the "IF" Crusade. You are a firey one...you'll fit in just fine. Oh and as for the fishey thing...believe it or not we discuss that too! Eeewww!
CS
Turkey-done-button?? I've been around and I've never heard that one! G-spot rocks, but for the record I always go for the clit first. Only because the percentages say more of you ladies prefer clitoral stimulation as opposed to g-spot.
From my experience, the g-spot was better stimulated doggie-style. Did I have several oddballs or am I missing something? What the hell does the G stand for anyway? Why are some ladies so touchy about manual stimulation of the clam? My fingers work well in unison with my slippery licker!!
A cigar cock is better than a pencil dick, right?
1. Yes.
2. Neither, Start with my brain, be nice to my breasts and make welcome with my little friend.
3. The best position is a comfortable one.
4. If I have to pick then girth but pipe cleaners do alright too.
5. It is a choice.
Welcome Gena! Thank you for joining in. Yes, the brain..I can not tell you how many times my brain has runined a perfectly good sexual experience. I have learned thorugh the years to "tune out" sometimes for the sake of enjoyment. Does it happen...well I am still working on that. You are the only one who has mentioned the breasts! Personally, they really don't do much for me...maybe it is a size issues (moderate), but certainly something that needs some attention. Glad you joined in--hope to see you back here!
Jimmy--the "G" Spot refers an infamous gynacologist named Ernest Gafenburg. He had done extensive research on the area.
The "G" spot is an area behind the pubic bone of a woman. It is part of the urethal sponge. Some time ago, people believed it was a bundle of nerves in the female human reproductive system. If the area is stimulated, this can cause pleasurable sensations in women and may lead to orgasm.
They me be the first to thank Ernie.
Citz Sun - You're one smart lady. Just the other night my best friend asked me if my wife's pussy smelt like fish. When he got up off the floor he realized that he probably shouldn't have asked that question.
Seriously now, of course men talk about woman but generally not about our wives or signifiant others.If we do it's usually about the lack of sex, her unwillingness to perform oral and swallow, or declaring that the dirt road is off limits.
We do talk about the women we work with, waitresses, celebs, strippers,the girl that just walked down the street, and now our pretty moderator. (By the way please consider a new photo that gives us a little more to fantasize about.) Those conversations include wishfull thinking, bizarre acts, and sometimes scary thoughts. You ladies really don't want to know about those conversations. They are brutal and can be demeaning. I gurantee that if you heard those conversations there will be a run on didlo's.
Now back to the main point of my original comment that you completely missed. You don't need to have all the perfect male and female body parts to have great sex. Sometimes it helps and maybe sometimes it's required, but great sex for me starts first with the emotional connection, then the physical part (looks), and then the actual act. If I'm pullin down a pair of panties with my teeth the last thing I'm thinking about is are her breasts the same size! Now maybe the next day I might reflect on the act and remember certain things that weren't perfect, but by now I'm wondering if my new friend that just rocked my boat left me a little something that will require treatment. I'll swear off indiscretions, go to church, pray to God, and worry everytime a pee. That lasts for about a month or until the opportunity presents itself and the amount of alcohol is sufficient to make me forget and it starts all over again.
What we all need to figure out is how to we keep the magic that was there in the begining. It seems to me that your focus is wrong. You don't solve a problem by cheating on your soul mate because someone has a bigger, thicker dick, or bigger breasts and a tighter pussy.
What do you have to say Dr. Sunday.
P.S. The small penis remark didn't mean a thing to me. Sorry to disapoint you. My penis works for me and after all isn't that what your theme is all about? Looking out for number 1!
Ok, you are back and obviously looking for a confrontation--I won't give it to you. What I will give you is some useful knowledge.
So basically you are comfortable slandering women who do not belong to you, but guess what--that means that some jerk off is saying the same things about your gainfully employed woman. I will gaurantee you that the "man talk" you speak of will not cause an increase in dildo sales, but it may very well make me glad you are not mine.
Since I misunderstood you let's clarify something. At what point did you feel our discussion about penis size was noting that it had to be perfect? Did you miss the idea of the topic? Did you read the comments? I am assuming you did not because if you had you will see that every person including me had a different response. So who and what is defining perfect? The subject matter was preference, not perfection.
I commend you for stating great sex for you comes from emotional connection and that looks are secondary. Wow! You are the most amazing man I have ever encountered. So you could fall in love with a rancid woman as long as you are connected emotionally and will not blink an eye if your sweetheart gains 50lbs? Women of the world rejoice!!!! We have found the prophet!
Seriously, no one including me has made any indication or suggested we should screw around if our beloved companions are not doing the trick. Where did you get that idea? Not once has anyone condoned cheating. You seem to take this very personally and have made it much more than what it is...an open discussion about generally repressed topics.
Finally, I changed the picture that you wanted to get "emotional" about. The "theme" that you slander is about number 1. In case you didn't know unless you are good to yourself--you will never be any good to someone else.
Do me a favor..move past this section and read some of the other post--then get back to me. At the moment the only thing you and I agree on is the use of your teeth and working towards keeping the magic alive. I am sure everyone would like to hear your take on how to keep the realtionship alive--work on that one for me.
Dr. Sunday (I like the title-thanks!)
1. Of course emotional state affects sexual pleasure, but I hope it isn't all controlling. I know that from my own experience sex is better when I am emotionally intimate as well.
2. I find it difficult to reach a mature orgasm, which is derived completely from vaginal stimulation. I prefer clitoral stimulation or immature orgasms, so my favorite part of sex is foreplay. The first push, from insertion to full penetration, is amazing if foreplay is performed correctly.
3. I like the reverse ride. Sitting on my partner gives me access to pleasure myself, plus facing away from him allows his hands perfect position on my breasts, as well access to fondle other parts. However, the larger, lengthy penis can be quite uncomfortable in this position.
4. There is such a thing as too big and too small. I agree that 6 inches and brawny is the perfect penis. I personally believe that perfect is preference and it changes for every woman. I believe it has alot to do with body type. I am a small woman so I'm not a big fan of of the long pencil pecker. Average length is great, but who wants a hot dog when you can have a bratwurst?
5. I do doggie style but I can't say I really like it. Sometimes if I'm in that naughty mood, I like the sound.
Excellent feedback 77sadge--thanks for the perspective. Hilarious and well put. Haven't heard anyone mention the sound! Hope your guy knows how good he has it!
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