What happened to the enthusiatsic, free-spirited, mini skirt wearing, high heeled, I am gonna get laid tonight vixens that we used to be? And don't try and say that you never were this woman because if you weren't then you wouldn't be on this site.
Did someone knock on my door and tell me, "Hey Sun, just wanted to let you know that it is no longer acceptible for you to visually and mentally express yourself as a fierce sexual being." I don't recall that happening, nor do I remember the last time I put on a hot little number and thought, "I am going to turn some heads tonight."
I know the first response to this will be--because we are a bit older now. Who the hell made up that rule? I will tell you---our men and the other woman who are not secure enough in their own relationships to sit next to us in a bar when we are feeling our finest. And shame on me for complying with their inadequecies. I am not suggesting we all dress like two-bit-tramps, but damn ladies, if you got it going on (which you do) why in the hell DON'T WE FLAUNT IT?
I know that every one of you right now is saying: Oh she's crazy, my cellulite is horrible, I am too fat to do that, where am I suppossed to go all dressed up? Answer: I didn't say strut around in your bikini, we can buy clothes that fit right, and go out by yourself if you have to. I am the queen of that one.
Last week I took myself to NY. I spent three days searching for some great designer bargains and looking for...well--me.
What I found was a great Prada purse, some fab boots and small slice of me. The part I speak of that has been rediscovered is: I am and want to be sexy. I thank the beautiful ladies of NY for that. Everywhere I went there were hundreds of confident, beautifully clad women walking around in their thigh-high boots and leggin (all shapes and sizes). Every one of them looked stunning....and no they weren't all fashion models. Many were woman with strollers or simply walking to get their morning fix of Starbucks.
My point with all of this: "It is healthy to feel beautiful." Just because Numnuts doesn't notice anymore--it doesn't mean I don't have to notice anymore. Any thoughts?
If you have a few minutes for a laugh click on this link. She calls herself Charlene. Mindless humor has it's purpose......
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qebuo12efos
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I agree with your comment about insecure people! I'm 41, and feel and look great! I wear whatever I feel comfortable in at that moment, if it's a pucci dress, and gucci heals, or low rise tight jeans, and a bebe tank, with fab jewelry, and come f#*@ me pumps. I am according to my man, and friends "always over dressed", and looking like I spent hours infront of the mirror! Actually, I don't spend much time there at all anymore! I throw on some moisturizer, and bronzer, mascara and lip plumper, and head out! I think that my confidence in myself is my makeup. I have finally become the woman I have always wanted to be! I like me so much, that if I wasn't me, i would be my best friend, and if I was a guy, I would want to be with me! (which by the way, I am very good to me, so I don't really have a problem with that one, but that's another blog subject!) Anyway, i agree also, that there should be no rules about the age thing! I always say that you're only as old as the person you feel,... so go for younger guys if you want to feel younger! Wear what you're feeling your best in, and do it for you, no one else!
Welcome and it is great to hear from someone else who genuinely likes themself. I mean that...I always say that I am my bestfriend and quite often put myself on a pedastool. Not above anyone else-just truely like the person that I am (with the exception of being too giving sometimes). Too often I hear women of all ages putting themselves down and pointing out their weaknesses. Why? Aren't there enough jackasses in the world to do that for them? I am sure you are fabulous. As you know--a confident woman is an amazing force. Please chime in again, your self assurance can be contagiuos! Care to share some tips on finding the better you? This forum is for sharing ideas and joining together so everyone can be an "IF" woman.
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