Oh no---the forbidden fruit. In advance--let me state this clearly for my married gal pals and those who are judgemental.........
"I do not condone adultery and have not gone out of my way to be a part of someone else's adulteress attempts, but let's be realistic shit happens." sb
YES it happened...and YES I knew about it...YES it was exciting...would I recommend it....NO! Would I do it again...I might pretend for the thrill of it, but he would have to be exceptional.
I was quite a bit younger and "hormones a racin" and he was more than readily available. Let's face it, 36 years and happily not married--my numbers are up there and of course there are going to be at least one or two married ones in my bookworthy sexual experiences.
Anyone feel like fessing up?
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You know, I just commented to a friend this morning about something similar. She told me that she did something that she wanted to do for a long time...she's not my any means a devious gal, so I anxiously awaited on the edge of my chair for her to confess a juicy detail. But, to my dismay, all it was is that she took out her belly-button ring...that's it, i said...I told her, "I thought you were going to tell me that you cheated on your man or something (which she would never, ever do-wouldn't even dare talk like that)", she says, "No, not quite, the goods ones are either married or gay." So, I told her that a married man is exactly what she needs. Two people unsatisfied in their dead-end relationship (which they're stuck in for whatever reasons) coming together for a night of passion. Why not???
So, to confess to this sin that some book calls adultery, been there, done that...Good points and bad, I suppose. One told me to never have babies cuz it'll ruin your body forever (maybe that's why I don't want any kids), another wanted me to exclusive and not date others...what's with that, aren't you married, how does that work? Anyway, he was good for awhile, but became too demanding. My advice to anyone who sleeps with a married man, don't get attached-it's as simple as that. He's not leaving her and if he does, he'll cheat on your ass too, sooner or later. I must say, are you sure that's the only married man you slept with??? The sexual being you are! BE proud, SAY IT OUT LOUD!!! Next topic: perhaps sports players or famous people...lol!
Boy she must be a real hoot! Joking...but yes, she needs to experience a married man. Passion is exactly what they are good for. Lots of that with them and my god--they make you feel sexy. For whatever reason they and you are there...for the moment is a good one! I said I enjoyed it--with how many, well that I'll have to keep under my pillow right now. Let's see: as per the other, I have had a football player, hockey, baseball..I think that's it. Hey maybe I am the Pro!
Hmmmm...let's see..baseball,check; football,check; hockey,check; rugby(not in the professional sense,but it was The Pgh Rugby team,not the whole team!)lol,check; basketball(does the tall white guy from the high school team count?),then check; golfer(does the head pro of a golf club count?),then check
OK, that pretty much sums it up! Now, all I need is soccer-maybe David Beckham's available?? He's gotta be tired of that skanky-ass Posh Spice...she should be Scarey Spice! Oh and tennis...well, also in high school there was the short Italian kid who went to Gateway..he had such a little pee-pee!!! How I remember this shit I have no idea!
Sex with a married man is probably the best sex I have ever had. Hte forbidden fruit, you always want what you can't have kind of thing. You are so right-NEVER GET ATTACHED. And I can say that after seven years of running around with my hot guy. Somehow I have to figure out how to have sex and not get attached. I know you are the expert on that one!!HELP
Roxy
You my dear are way beyond indulging in the forbidden fruit--you are hosting your own farmer's market! As you know that type of relationship is incredibly tricky and for the sake of Halloween is to be kept as a treat. That many years could only mean one thing...feelings. You know the song whoa, whoa, whoa, feeeelllllings. I would call you the expert considering you have maintained your marriage throughout this process. I have to wonder...why? I would guess you would say the kids or that you always knew your "fruit" would not leave his significant other. As for my ability to separate what I like to call fact and fiction..it is simply that. What is the reality of my actions and what is the fantasy. When I was full blown single and traveled all the time there was nothing more exciting than meeting someone and enjoying them for the moment. I suppose it depends on the situation at hand. If Numnuts and I decided to part ways---I would quickly revert back to that mentality because for me the ideal situation would be to have some one part time for companionship when needed and of course sex. That would be it. I think Slgross and ??? will have some great insight to this since they both have had full on relationships and feelings with the big No No.
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