I have a question that I would love to be answered by both genders. Ready...here goes: Do all men send pictures of nasty, naked women to one another via text message/email? This may sound like a senseless question and I am sure most of the women would say--hell ya they do, but I really wonder.
Here is why..yesterday I was sitting comfortably on our boat minding my own business when all of a sudden something came over me and I decided to fumble my way through numnut's cell phone. I know what you are saying (men) "Oh how dare she?" Whatever..it was there. Anyway, the very first thing I found was a text message sent in the morning from a 58 year old male friend of Numnuts that contained more than 10 wildly open beaver shots. There was some girl on girl, of course the oversized booby babe and to my dismay--wide open beaver!
Now, if you know me, I am far from a prude and I am pretty damn confident in my sexuality, but for some reason it urked me. I didn't make a big deal about it and have it ruin our day, but I did ask him why his old timer friend thought that he needed or should I say would enjoy this first thing in the morning? I mean after all--Numnuts has me to look at and although I may not have the DDD mammoth boobs, I have my assets.
So, ladies, does your man receive these type of morning jumpstarts and are you offended by it? Do you feel it is disrespectful of the sender to assume your man NEEDS to be on the list of ones who might enjoy such visuals?
Gentlemen: Before you hit me with "boys will be boys" at what point (age) do boys stop being boys and become gentle-men? My main response to Numnuts was: Ok honey, how about I put together a slide show of well endowed, firm assed, big shouldered, 6'2 men and send it out to all of my female counterparts? Would you like that dear?
He responded with a simple--No. Then he reminded me that it was sent to him and that he was not the initiator. My money says that if it were not intercepted he would have become the initiator and passed it on to some other dumb ass man friend. Let's not forget the quick defensive comment, "Why are you reading my stuff anyway?" I said, I was horny and looking for some porn, he had no response, of course."
For the record: The man-boy that sent it originally is almost 60, overweight, balding, divorced, and can't find a piece of ass to save his life so therefore justified, but Numnuts has me to fondle at will so where of where is the correlation?
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Let me speak, quite intelligently I might add, for the male side. No all of us do not receive and/or send such porn. What you do have is a bunch of guys who can't get any and therefore need lots of beat-off material. They send it to every guy they know because if everyone is looking at it, then they're not that bad.
Here's the part that sucks some of us do not enjoy receiving such things but are innately obligated to look. We may even say' ewwwwwww ' is she nasty but would never chastize another man for fear of being permanently outcast and labeled as a faggot.
On the other hand, though some of us would not choose to receive them, we might really enjoy one or two, smile and then delete! Does that make us bad? I don't think so because I know women would do the same. However, holding on to it and keeping it shows that you more than enjoyed a brief view.
Just for the record, I couldn't imagine ever wanting to see another woman naked if you were mine! You may be the only super hot non airhead I've ever met.
I do see how it would be unpleasant for you because I certainly wouldn't like my woman eyeing up some stud I couldn't compete with. (is there even such a man) Point made Sunny and I'm glad I don't fit in that mold.
As for going through his phone all I can think of is the old saying that goes, “Be careful of what you seek for you may not like what you find”. As the same applies for your questions, “Be careful of the questions you ask for you may not like the answer”.
With that said, I don’t Believe that all men send pics of porn. Many may receive them from time to time (depending on their network of “friends”), but not all send or even forward the ones they do receive. To keep them however, for some type of viewing pleasure or so called “entertainment” value denotes another type of issue all its own. An issue that I’m not sure I should address, but will try to delicately touch on to provide some insight to your question.
Porn has been around as long as photography and viewed by every man at one point or time during his life. Most men outgrow this childish fetish in their early to mid twenties while others become obsessed and feel the need to have it in one form or another continuously throughout their life. The problem then lays in the question or action of when does the need for this continual exposure move from digital pictures and/or Film into the stage of need for physical contact. Not from one continuous person, but instead from numerous anonymous women (ie-strippers, hookers, etc) seemingly trying to fulfill these unrealistic fantasies engrained by trick photography of air brushed no name digital images.
The female body is a beautiful and wondrous thing with its soft warm skin and many enticing curves, each packaged ever so delicately into its own unique structure and wrapped around it own indelible personality. Each man must make a decision to accept the women in his life as that of which he sought and has accepted as his own partner or continually seek out an otherwise unrealistic and never fulfilling fantasy through such perversions as digital pornography. If you weren’t offended by these images I would sincerely question your devotion to this man. Instead I now question his towards you. But I kind of get the Feeling from your writing that you may already know this.
Tough questions. Tough situation. Tough responses???????
Ms. Sunday - You checked your signigicant others messages? What next him checking your email. Shame on you. It shouldn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home. Maybe dining out should be an option!!!!
P.S. Can you have your roommate send me the photos?
Well what a vast range of comments--thank you all.
For starters--Jimmy, always the fine contributor. Nicely put and since you know me pretty well, you know that normally such antics of minor porn would not ruffle my feathers. I do enjoy your take on the reason why a man would send it to his other primates...hadn't looked at it that way, but agree! I hope you will continue to chime in when the mood tickles you.
Anon # 1: Again, such an attractive approach to an unattractive question. I have known men to relish in all sorts of pornographic material and truth be said, my beau has never been one to indulge. I feel that this may have been an incident of bad timing and like you said, "be careful of what you seek for..." After almost 5 years I suppose he deserves a break for good behavior for the most part. I like your style, please continue to delight me with your obvious wisdom and nonjudgemental approach.
Anon #3: Just by your few words I know who you are....funny! As for "checking" his phone--not the case. He spends a lot of time on that keyboard clicking away and if I want to open his phone, I will do as I please and vice-versa. As per my emails--open book my friend. And no, you can not have the pictures from my roommate-(smartass)they would cause you to remain indoors under a blanket far longer than any human should be shut in!
Hey Sunday!!
The BCA is back, I have missed you. Who cares about looking at his phone? Its there, you looked at it, you found that crap. I dont like his defense that they were sent to him. Why were they not deleted as soon as he saw those nasty pictures?
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